Ok…. so here is the plan:

• Listen to the songs
• Add the ones you like to a playlist of your own on youtube or Spotify for such purpose. Add any you like and get reminded of.
• Play such playlist before getting in the shower or whilst getting ready for your date to show up.

Also:

• Listen to these tunes as much as possible if you want to soak in and radiate sensual vibes on a daily basis. ;D

Additional tips for a perfect night:

• Get in the shower listening to the playlist created by you.

• Moisturize your body all over, it’s worth it, and they do notice it!!.

• Choose lingerie carefully to match your body type and highlight your shape and skin colour the best. For best results ditch all your ugly lingerie and only use pretty one, even on days he’s not around. It will make you feel constantly sexy.

• Take your time to do your nails and toenails, style your hair, and do your make-up (if you use any)… all whilst listening to these tunes.

• Put a nice sultry perfume on, but don’t over do it.

• Choose some accessories that will make yourself stand out from the crowd in one way or another; be those very bold red shoes, an original pendant, some fancy earrings or dare to wear shirt, tie and suspenders!. Anything that can set you apart ;D

• Alternatively, you can also wear a flattering shape hugging bodycon. Whatever you do just choose to display one part of your body according to your favourites assets. Either a long skirt with a slit on the side to show off your legs, or a cheeky cleaveage to get their heart racing… but don’t over do it… let his imagination run wild. Any touch of black lace or seethrough fabric could do the trick. Something silky, velvet or shiny also helps to make you stand out and may add a touch of elegance to your look.

• Red or hot pink lipstick are usually a must, but since you may end up kissing I would recommend heavy dramatic smoky eye-make up instead and just an easy going lipstick that will not spread all over your face after kissing. Because if you follow all the tips above… it’s quite likely it will happen.

 

Important: Let me know in the comments which tips you already follow or which songs you already know and listen that get you in such mood.

 

Let’s start with some commercial tunes…

For those who have hubby/boo at home… there are some techniques to have him at your beck and call in the lyrics.

 

If relationship is a bit on the rocks and you’re trying to reignite it, perhaps you can play this one to remind you both of this goal. Maybe he’ll be more willing to do so if you do so in a sexy way. ;D

 

But if you’re single and just want to attract someone new….

Going out with the girlfriends…. these are the best!! ;D

Going out on your own?

Feeling like teasing anyone at home or at the disco?

And for a really scandalous this one….

Receiving a new date/lover at home?

And below is how classic r’n’b would do it back in the 90’s for all of you who missed it in the day.

She definitely makes your temperature rise with her confidence on this video. Look at her eyes!! What a powerful look… pay attention to it.

Tip to cast a spell: If you happen to be out and about clubbing in town and you spot an attractive guy of your fancy… practice her gaze in this video above, when done right (only one or twice and then kill them with a subtle smile… then success is 100% guaranteed).

And here below another cool sexy and sensual classic… nothing feels as good as having guys feeling that way about you.

Knowing there are some guys out there who could be like the guy he describes in the song below can also get me wild. Uhm… sweet and rough. Notice the girls outfits… oh yeah, all black, lacey, fishnets and stuff… it’s not accidental at all.

The video below is more of a visual guide on how to rock the sensual look style in case you didn’t notice on the video above. Look at Shakira and Rihanna in this video and ignore the lyrics (because if there is something most guys find unattractive is a woman chasing guys). But I bet this video has been created to display these two as seductive as they can be from a male’s perspective.

 

Now for lovers of darker and more alternative sexy beats…. I guess it’s not an accident this was the song played in the add of my favourite perfume. ;D

These ukranian women are amazing to get my wildest self out… ideal whilst getting dressed and doing the make up, hair and getting ready to leave the house.

Now let’s move with one of my favourite artists to create a great sensual vibe, the dark touch of the synths, the slow beat, his sensual voice and the lyrics are spot on to make a move on someone, as the letters claim “you work all week to make ends meet … forget abut life and let’s live for tonigh”. Carpe diem my friends. And if they don’t get it… or don’t feel like it or leave it for “later”… move on onto someone else who is ready and willing to make the most out of your body whilst you are still fit and alive. ;D

And oh man this one…. super sexy and sensual the way it starts and pretty much the whole way through…. I never get bored of it. ;D

And for black queens like me (whose songs like the ones below would remind their guys of you because they know they’re just your style or something you do inspire on them… ) ….. I have tons more sensual electronic dark tunes like the ones displayed above and below in different music styles and more of the same, so please, if you think any of the linked songs is working for you…. feel free to ask for your customized playlist on youtube if this one feels a bit short.

Needless to say 20 years of classifying music by moods to lift my spirits up for each and every purpose possible has lead me to have them in mind when I feel a certain way. So if you’re feeling down, frustrated, want to make your guy value you more, want to look sexy, feel confident, and so on… I can make a shortlist of my favourites of all types for that purpose and find way mores that will bring you that feeling. This is only a tiny example of variety and I hope it helps you get in the mood whichever your style I hope you found one that gets somewhere near. So make sure you choose wisely and choose to stay this wild for longer . 😀

But I also have some more rock and darker stuff…

Some wild relationships get wildy addictive.

And contradictive….

A sensual touch of grunge…. this one it’s amazing.

And when I mean all styles I mean… all; from the harshest ones…

To the oldest classics

Let’s finish it now with these guys for starting me on my wild journey. I must confess being or looking sexy was something I was seriously missing from my life prior to age 19. Well, not missing, it was kind hidden waiting for it to be safe to come out, sort to speak.

And I believe we all hide it at some point because being too upfront or open about it it’s still kind of a taboo or worse, a double standard: If you don”t have that sensual touch you would be deemed as a frigid or boring, plain, etc. and if you have it, then you’re apparently always flirting, a temptress, the devil itself just for you being confident, sensual, open and honst. It’s like there is no middle term with this. Yet… we all love a picture of Monica Bellucci who oozes sensuality through all her pores and nobody is wronged by it. So why is that so? what does she have that drives most men crazy and make most women acknowledge her power? it’s not other than staying in touch with her wild side whilst keeping it classy. I would say that’s the sweet spot.

 

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update 19/08/20