Hi dear new friend:
If you only just wanted to say “hi” or call my attention as a polite or thankful acknowledgement for adding you on facebook…
Hi back at you and you’re welcome!!!
Thank you for resquesting friendship on facebook/quora/instagram, I truly appreciate your interest and curiosity in gettting to know me further, I truly do.
And I wouldn’t have added you if I hadn’t seen much in common and I wouldn’t like to read future content from you on my feed.
Sadly, I’m at the moment more focused on creating a future estable income for myself and my little family and therefore engaging in private conversations is not a priority at the moment.
Unless….
You actually contacted me to enquire about a service of the many I provide as a photographer, online Spanish teacher and lifestyle coach. Please let me know but you will have to be ready to pay in advance and once paid then we could talk about business as much as it’s necessary.
And here is where you can stop reading.
If you got landed here without me adding you to my facebook
I appreciate your friend request but if I haven’t added you is because I feel we haven’t got much in common.
However I feel I could help you improving the way you approach people online by sharing the following information:
- First: Facebook/Quora/Instagram are not dating apps yet, as far as I know. Facebook has one but I’m confident you didn’t find me there though. So if I add on any of those sites it doesn’t imply we are a “match”. So, trust me, there is no need to initiate private conversation just to say “hi”.
- Second; my time is limited and therefore very valuable to me. So unless talking to you is gonna help me pay my bills I can’t entertain you.
- Third: if you really wanted to get me interested, I’m afraid you failed at getting me remotely interested.
As you can see below your attempt is quite average. That way all you are going to get is lonely, sad and bored “pick me up” women.
Yes!! I know, I know. Some of you may feel offended now and will argue that you were just trying to be friendly and social. You may even go as to say that you even have a partner and that you have no interest in me whatsoever.
Therefore… why on earth would you feel compelled to bother me with such juiceless private messages?
Judging from my experience I guess you simply need another source of male ego-boost and you thought I could be it.
That’s great!! That makes you a player then!. Welcome to the team!
I’m the coach you need 😉
You could never play the coach, but I totally recommend you to invest on this how to be successful with emotionally and financially independent women like me.
I know most men won’t do it. So that’s why I’m only into men who are distinctly unique enough to be invest on it. Those are the only ones worth getting to know these days. The ones that make an effort to truly learn how to understand us women.
And if the price and requirement to get to talk to me puts you off me. AWESOME!! That’s precisely my intention!!
And yes, this coach sometimes pretends to take the bait as any “pick me” would do just to ensure the advice she provides her female clients is accurate. And yeps…. her advice is 100% accurate.
Those who are not time wasters happen to be a total waste of time.
And gosh… you could do so much better if you only knew what makes women my kind take the bait for real!!
Now you can….
Join the THE BITTER MEN club and call me a vain bitch to feel better about yourself. How very surprising that would be!! (eye roll)
… or
You can act like a gentleman, realize that perhaps you’re doing something “wrong” and learn how to be successful approaching and getting the attention of any women you find attractive.
So please let her coach you to win the match of your life.
Otherwise read the quote below and proceed accordingly.
Thank you very much for reading this far.
