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Musically wise is not a style I dig but I can’t help liking a good song lyric that fits perfectly with this standard I totally recommend women to have when it comes to improve the quality of the relationships they can have.

Most women end up losing their minds for men that haven’t really done much to get their attention, just got them hooked in average conversation or complimented them. As if they had to entertain them just because these men decided to invest a second of their life calling their attention.

And don’t get me wrong, we don’t get offended if a guy comes and compliments us on our physical beauty but that won’t be enough to get wild women excited to invest any of their time on you. All we hear/read is … “I have superficial values, the moment your body changes or someone prettier comes along so will change my feelings for you”.

And up to you if you want to be that woman. But if you don’t want to be the woman that gives her best to the wrong man I totally recommend you staying single until someone who has deeper values comes along, if ever.

And YES, I know how hard it is to say NO to entertain the attention of all those successful, handsome or powerful men. But it’s way easier to resist temptation of entertaining them when the rewards of doing so far outweight indulging into the easy thing.

I personally can feel way more respect and attraction for men who can intuitively feel we’re actually not waiting for them to give us validation and choose not to bother us with superficial compliments unless they have something valuable to offer.

And if you learn to pay attention to this…. you will no longer be fooled by players or waste your time with men who are not going to be good enough for you.

Time is precious and limited. Wild women know and understand this and that’s why we have rewired our brains to only find certain attributes attractive. And the ones we’re looking for are so easy to recognize that anyone approaching us not displaying such attributes may get instantly and temporarily rejected, if not permanently.

And we do not need to be popular or famous in order to be selective as hell with our time or who we allow in our lives.

If a man thinks we are asking for more than we’re actually worth according to him. Great! It’s like trash took itself out. We can’t force or convince anyone about our value and we will not be anyone’s ego boost, option or back up plan. If a man doesn’t push the button the right way, door may never open or it may close in the blink of an eye.

If you are a single man wondering why women don’t choose you, ignore you or avoid you. Perhaps you’re displaying too many selfish or undesirable attributes. If you want to know what went wrong or why you can’t seem to find love, you can book my advice here.