Never lose hope … because some dreams definitely come true.
How do they come true for me?
Wishful thinking helps tons but laser focus on them like I suggest doing during your retreat here works even faster. But for those who can’t afford it… below I will show you the steps I followed to make mine come true.
If you’re not one of those that had many dreams come true thus far perhaps it’s because first you need to find your wild side, which by the way is an attitude you will be immersed in during your retreat. Mostly because only when you truly get to know yourself is when you become fearless in the pursuit of what sets your soul on fire.
This attitude and knowledge will also make you lose the fear of leaving behind any situations or any people that are not in alignment with your new standards, moral values or anything that can steer you away from reaching out such goals and dreams.
So I show below exactly what you have to do to;
STEP ONE: AWARENESS…..
FIRST OFF and ironically you need to:
W . A . K . E – U . P
Life is happening NOW. This is not a rehearsal.
So have a think… what makes you truly happy? Go for it – NOW.
Dreams are not going to come true for you unless you’re being true to yourself and act accordingly EVERY SINGLE DAY. Yes. You have to be true to yourself, loyal to what you really want to experience in life and be fearless in the pursuit of getting it. On my online course I help you to become fearless and songs will be part of it. Why? oh well, songs are an easy way to keep you on track of what you want. The more you listen to the right kind of music and lyrics the more you will be reminded of your goals. And trust me, it’s all an art, I mean that of choosing the right song for the right time.
STEP 2: THINK EXACTLY ON WHAT YOU WANT AND WHEN DO YOU WANT IT FOR.
Forget about fancy cars and expenive houses, forget about other people’s expectations of you or social media definitions of success. You just have to sit down and ask yourself; what do I enjoy doing the most? what makes me feel good? What makes me feel happy?. And just go for it as if you life depended on it because your health definitely does get affected by it.
- Get a vision board too so you can see pictures of your goals and write a date next to them.
- Look at it at least once a day feeling as if they’ve already been achieved.
- Listen to music daily that reminds you of such goals.
- Everyday take at least one action that will get you there faster.
STEP 3: BE AS SPECIFIC AS POSSIBLE IN WHAT YOU WANT.
This is an EXTREMELY IMPORTANT step. You’ll see why in my examples below.
STEP 4: REFUSE TO SETTLE FOR LESS
DARE TO SAY “NO” TO EVERYTHING THAT DOESN’T QUITE LOOK LIKE “IT”.
You will need courage and a lot of patience to get what you truly want. There will come a lot of easy options along the way to tempt you with easy ways. And most people don’t get what they want because they get tempted by such choices. Why? it’s easy to give up, it’s easy to feel afraid that what you want may never happen. It’s easy to end up thinking you should perhaps settle for less. But honestly nothing that’s easy was ever worth it.
So you’ll need to trust in your vision and live with conviction that what you want does exist and will come true mostly because you’re refusing to accept anything less or because you already pictured it in your mind.
Examples with Dreams I have achieved lately.
- SEEING MCCARTHY LIVE
There is a song I never grow tired of listening and I often wondered what it would be like to enjoy it live…. and then also the song that I discovered rencently that summarizes precisely my theory of “I want it I get it“, and I lived it first row!! And the funny thing is that I didn’t look at the dates of his future gigs, and the chances of him coming with Fixmer… oh well! slim to none!!. Furthermore, Someone I haven’t heard from months just asked me if I was going and that’s how I found out. And it’s not like him to ask me to go to concerts. In fact, we both have very busy lives and rarely stay in touch. But when we met to go to the concert… and I thanked him so much for letting me know and how lucky I was to be able to make it because I didn’t have the kids and everything was like perfect so I could go, he said “you always have that!!”. And by “that” he meant “the ability to get what you want”. And he’s witnessed me quitting a job right in front of his eyes because our boss became ridiculously unfair to him and to me … and he saw me finding a job the day after. And it was fun catching up with him, I almost forgot how fun he’s to talk to. And sharing our experiences on making “life” work on our terms. As he’s quite popular too at succeeding at it.
- GETTING MY HOUSE BACK (it took me three years)
The biggest hold-up I had in making this dream coming true has been MYSELF. I didn’t focus hard enough on it. Didn’t put a specific date on it. At some point I even hoped I didn’t need to get back into it.
When I finally felt a sense of urgency I finally applied for the marriage assets to be divided as I should have done straight after the divorce. Since I was happy, comfortable and sort of distracted for a while I realized I made the mistake of trusting blindly in the Spanish Legal System to work properly (great huge mistake). My paperwork got lost or neglected TWICE. I would share with you all the tips I used on my Find Your Wild Side retreat.
Of course I couldn’t have managed to achieve this dream without the support of my family, to which I owe that I keep working on this Dream a bit further before I can relax and focus on achieving other goals.
- THE BODY OF MY DREAMS (question of months)
You can read more about all that latest process here or come and eat with me for a week to find out how I manage to stay fit withot exercising much at all.
- THE JOB OF MY DREAMS (10 años)
Well, that used to sound contradictory to me for most of my life. But it doesn’t anymore. I finally focused on dreaming away into my new reality.
My job today mostly consists in having fun playing games and challenging students to lose their fear of expressing themselves in English (or Spanish). And thanks to my amazing daring clients who decided to partake in this type of learning experience for their children this year I can teach from my dream home with my bilingual children. My students get the real English pronunciation and I get to spend some time having fun with my children as well as my students all at once. That also frees my parents from having to look after them. It doesn’t seem much like work but the good marks my students get speak for themselves.
Sometimes my job looks like this too when I teach grown up students who just want to travel and enjoy some adventures whilst learning the language.
Would you like to travel and learn Spanish at the same time? don’t you want to learn Spanish but you would like to get by with someone who is fun and speaks it well? .Well, that’s only possible with me when I don’t have the kids. 🙂
- LOVE OF MY DREAMS?
I married my biggest crush back in the day and he was the love of my dreams at that time, so I guess one can say I totally got it. But I made some mistakes by not being specific enough in my choice and now I’ve recently embarked myself on a new challenge when it comes to love, and I’m willing to prove anyone that you can also get the love you dream of having.
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